I’m going to tell you how to be more attractive than 99% of the people on the planet; how to be sexier than 99% of the people on the planet. It comes down to 1 thing…
How To Be More Attractive Than 99% Of People On The Planet
Here it is…
Smile more, smile often, smile when it’s easy, and smile when it’s difficult. Why? Because smiling is an endangered species. You just don’t see it that often.
And that’s exactly why you should.
We as human beings, we look for differences in our environment; we look for variety. The smile can be that variety that you gift somebody. Imagine you are looking at a lush forest landscape. If a cardinal, a red bird, were to grace an incredibly green forest with it’s presence, how quickly would we see it?. The answer: instantaneously. It would pop in the periphery. The smile is no different. It pops. It’s something causes us to automatically light up upon laying witness to it.
Smiling Causes Us To See More Smiles
Let’s say you are in the market for a car. You or your family want a car really badly. Eventually you or your family get the car. Now you’re sitting there driving this vehicle, and you start seeing that same model car everywhere. What happened? Were those cars always there? Yes. But we didn’t see them. Did we see them with our eyes? Yes. But, we didn’t see them with our mind. How is that?…
Every single one of us has what’s called the Reticular Activating System. The RES for short. It’s a filter that we have that determines what’s important and what’s not important. The smile is no different, because when we start to smile, we become the vehicle of positive emotion, happiness, love. We go out and we share that with the world. What you start to see is the people in our periphery that are already smiling. Crazy, but you attract what you are. Aren’t those the people you want to be hanging out with anyway? Smile, and they come to you.
Smiling Shows Us Who You Are
Yesterday, I was at the post office. I’m waiting in line and everybody there was in a negative emotional space. The people behind me, as well as the people behind the counter that were working there. Everyone wanted to get their stuff done and get out of there. When I was there, I noticed this lady that was in front of me. She started yelling at the person that was behind the counter.
I noticed two things here. The first thing I noticed was how different this lady was from the people that I usually hang out. I noticed the difference, since the people I spend time with are always in a happy, beautiful emotional space.
The second thing that I noticed is just how unattracted I was to her; just how unattractive she was. Why? Because the way you treat anybody is the way you could potentially treat me. That includes how she treats somebody else, and how she treats herself.
When I walked up to the counter, I was in a beautiful emotional space: I was happy, I was loving. I started jiving with the person behind the counter. After about 3-5 minutes, she got it. It clicked.
She adopted my frame. I had the stronger frame of happiness. It was stronger than her unhappiness. Because of that, because I had that certainty of my happiness, she adopted. She came to my frame. Your positive emotions have the power to affect change much more than your negative emotions ever will. In fact, Why don’t we try it out?
If you’re still with me, I want you to walk around and just smile today. Smiling is a two-way street. By smiling, we actually start thinking positive thoughts. A lot of people don’t know that. They think that positive thoughts lead to smiling, but it’s actually a two-way street. It goes one way OR the other. You could start thinking happy thoughts, and you start smiling. Or you start smiling and you start thinking happy thoughts.
Walk around and start to smile. See how people respond to you. Realize that that is a very attractive thing. If you want to take it a step further, I want you to do two more things today:
I want you to find two people.
The first person you’re going to walk up to, and you’re going to ask them how to get to Starbucks. You’re going to walk up, and you’re going to say, “Hey. Do you know how to get to Starbucks?” You’re going to say it the same way everybody else does.
The second time, I want you to do something different. You’re going to be different from everybody else. You’re going to start smiling before you’ve even walk up. You’re also going to walk up and say, “Hey. Do you know how to get to Starbucks?”
If you’re in a beautiful place, a place where you’re not trying to get anything. A place where you’re just giving that beautiful emotion. You’re going to notice something if you are incredibly perceptive: they are going to start smiling before you’ve even said a word. It’s crazy, but it works.
So remember, “Smile more, smile often”. It is attractive. If you think people need to smile more, or if you just agree that smiling is attractive, do me a favor and share this on your social media.
Also I’d love to know your thoughts about smiling and if you think it’s attractive. Leave me a comment below and let’s get the discussion going.